Posted by: aaronshaver | November 2, 2009

Spaghetti Lunch

thank-youTwo weeks ago the Middle School Ministry at Smyrna Assembly held a Spaghetti Lunch Fund Raiser. It was an amazing success and I owe a very big THANK YOU to all the parents, teens, and volunteers who helped!

From the parents who provided drinks and plates to the teens who served spaghetti and salad, job well done! And, thank you very much to the SA family at large. You guys showed up in big numbers to support your middle school ministry (and maybe eat some spaghetti with home-made sauce. yum.) and really showed us a lot of love.
With your generosity and support we raised over $800 and with that money we are now able to heavily discount our trip to New Frontiers Retreat Center. If you eat spaghetti with us or simply made a generous donation, you have blessed a family and provided for a teen to experience God in a special way.
6 adults and 15 teens leave for New Frontiers on Friday, November the 6th! Be sure to check back for updates on how God is effecting the lives and families of our middle schoolers.

Posted by: aaronshaver | September 21, 2009

Marshmallow Temptation

I saw this video on my friend’s Facebook page a few days ago. I ABSOLUTELY HAD to repost it here. Beyond the fact that the kids are hilarious, this video is also a great example of how temptation immediately works on us.

Just another example of how people don’t really change from childhood to adulthood. The “marshmallows” just get more complicated.

–Aaron

Posted by: aaronshaver | September 13, 2009

Found in Translation

This summer I spent time with our youth group on a mission trip in the great state of Texas. We went with Mission Discovery, a wonderful organization with Christ as its head and servanthood at its center.

Now, initially, Mission Discovery planned to take our youth group to a border town in Mexico to build houses that we would say looked more like tool sheds for the locals in that Mexican community. However, the drug cartel violence began to really peak in Mexico just a few months before the trip …so Mission Discovery rescheduled us to serve in Hidalgo Co. Texas for a week.  According to the U.S. Census, Hidalgo Co. is considered one of the poorest counties in the U.S.A. and after serving their locals and remodeling homes, filling in dirt floors, framing a ceiling, laying insulation where there was none…all the while, being surrounded by the unbelievable poverty of the families in this community; I believe it. This is the poorest county in the United States.

During our time on this mission trip, the churches who were serving with Mission Discovery would gather nightly to worship the Lord and then we’d share what we saw while on-site that day. Many teens would share a mix of heartbreak and hope as they relayed the poverty they saw in these homes (something many of our teens had not been exposed to before) but they’d also comment on the love they saw coming from each of the families. Somehow, without all the digital luxeries or even central heating and cooling, these families took pride in what they did have and loved each other in a very evident and unguarded way.

One night as we were sharing with the group, the worship leader from one of the churches expressed that he would like us all to pray for the family of the house that his teens had been assigned to work on. He told us how he met the mother of the home, let’s call her Magdelaina,  a middle aged hispanic woman who is a believer in Christ, and how she was recieving some financial support from time to time from her own 20 something year old daughter…who happens to NOT be a believer in Christ. Evidently, the mother, Magdelania, expressed that the issue of faith and religion had caused some amount of strife between her and her daughter over a few years.

Now there is something kinda humorous you need to know before I continue. While our youth group was serving with Mission Discovery in Hidalgo Co., we had been prepared to conduct most of our interaction with the locals in Spanish either by a hired translator or using or own Spanish language skills that some of us learned in high school. *sigh* Well, there was only one translator for the entire week covering the entire work site for 4 different youth groups stationed at 8 different houses. So, when communicating with the local residents we often had to fend for ourselves…with the Lord’s help, of course. However, on the second day on-site we discovered that most of the school aged children could speak perfect English. We discovered this while attempting to communicate a game of tag to around 15 children who had gathered at a  local church yard a block away from the homes at the work site. One of my leaders introducing herself to a group of kids by saying, “Me llamo es Anna…y tu?” with a big grin on her face. She knew something was wrong when the 15 kids only answered with blank stares. Finally, one of the older boys in the group shifted and responded, “Uh…my name’s Carlos…we can speak English.”  Oh, …uh, of course you can.

This information is important as it relates to Magdelaina and her daughter. You see, Magdelaina could speak nearly no English and required the translator to communicate with the worship pastor on-site. However, her daughter was raised in both Mexico and Texas and spoke English fluently.

Over the several days spent on the work site, the worship pastor was able to speak with Magdelaina’s daughter as she would arrive at the house frequently to lend a hand. At first, she was very distant to the worship pastor and not at all trusting of all these religious people who wanted to help rebuild her mother’s home. But within a few days, the worship pastor made a connection with Magdelaina’s daughter whereby she was able to “unload” some of her grievences against religious people and open a dialogue about faith, service, and poverty. Poverty was something she knew well.

I don’t know what happened during those work-day conversations between Magdelaina’s daughter and the worship pastor. But, I do believe a mutual trust was opened up. In that trust, two people who disagree on the existance of God gained an understanding of each other…they remained in disagreement… but they understood. The worship pastor was able to share his faith freely and, in turn, shared the faith of her mother, Magdelaina. And Magdelaina’s daughter was able to honestly express her doubt in God and her distrust of His people.

On the last afternoon of work on-site, God orchestrated a miracle. As each week comes to a close, the group takes a last look at their work on the family’s house, they say their good-byes to the family, and …generally it’s a very emotional good-bye…even through a language barrier. Magdelaina’s house, though it was still small, now had a running shower, a ceiling with insulation, and an awning for shade. Hugs were being exchanged with the family and “thank yous” were being said. The worship pastor was just about to load up his youth group into the van to depart but before they left he wanted to leave Magdelaina’s house and family with a proper blessing. However, there was no translator available that could communicate his words to the Spanish speaking family.

Except for Magdelaina’s daughter.

Magdelaina’s family was surrounded by the youth group and their worship pastor. The family embraced as the worship pastor began to pronounce blessings over this newly remodeled home. And, every word was translated into Spanish by Magdelaina’s daughter. As the worship pastor called on the Lord for protection and provision for this family, she echoed in Spanish the very same blessing. As he prayed that the Lord would bless their house with a unified family, so she prayed in Spanish too.

There was not a dry eye in that house…least of all Magdelaina and her daughter.

Some sort of emotional wall broke down that day in Magdelaina’s family. They were united. Is her daughter now a believer? I don’t know and I won’t cheapen the reality of this story by giving you false assurances that she is.

But I do know that God worked a miracle and broke through distrust to create a home where faith is now the currency of their daily lives.

Posted by: aaronshaver | September 6, 2009

God’s power

_7703_bruce-almighty-6-11-2003Remember the movie Bruce Almighty with Jim Carrey? I can remember the stir that movie caused among some Christian circles when folks realized the whole movie was about a man who receives God’s powers and abilities for a time. I remember the newspaper asked folks to write in and tell what they would do if they had God’s power.

I read so many responses that were published in the newspaper- people claiming that they would stop all the world’s hunger if they had the power of God. Others expressed how they would prevent wars, famines, global pollution, drug trafficing …you name it. For all the best intentions and desires of these good people writing in to the newspaper, I couldn’t help but wonder, “Do these people think God never thought of this?”

If God already has God’s power, why hasn’t He done any of these things? Couldn’t He rescue us all from mayham and tragedy. If we want wars and human rights violations to end, doesn’t He?

Maybe He has done those things and is doing them. Now, you Sunday School scholars out there are probably are already working up your answer to my querie so far. “JESUS!” you’re saying, “Jesus, is the answer…cause he died for us and made EVERYTHING  better!” My response is, “Yes, …but, no.”

You see Christ died for us in obedience to his Father. In doing so he provided the possibility for each person’s relationship with God to be made right again …as it was before the Fall in Genesis chp. 3.   BUT, WHAT ABOUT SIN AND THE ONGOING EFFECTS OF SIN IN THIS WORLD?!?!  (Reference the previously mentioned famine, war, drug trafficing…etc.)

This is where a quote from on of my Biblica Faith professors at Trevecca University comes to mind. Andy Johnson once said, ”God’s sovereignty is in His love, not in His power.”

Now, I’m not sure how many times Andy has been shouted down for making such a comment but I have to commend him for bodly stating God’s relationship to this world just as he saw it …and just as he read it in the scriptures. Andy was not in fact saying that God’s power is in any way limited but was saying that God has determined his own sovereignty by the measure of His love and not the measure of what is He simply capable of as all powerful Yahweh. Consider this:  if God wanted to solve all of mankind’s evils and problems by tonight, could He? But, what would it take to happen? According to scripture (Genesis chp. 6, 7, 8) God did solve all of mankind’s evils and problems once: HE FLOODED IT.

But, through Christ Jesus, He has made a way to solve the evil and sin in each man and woman. Sin still remains in the world as a condition of the Fall. Sin still remains in the hearts of men and women because God so loves us that He allows the freedom to choose Him. And, the freedom to choose God means also a freedom to choose not God. And there lies the rub; we are allowed by God’s grace and love to remain in our problems/sin/evil so long as we might one day choose Him.

God’s love will not override our…humaness. He will not force us to love Him. He will not force us to trust Him. That would not be love…or trust. Whatever it would be would not resemble anything human. If God forced our love and our wills toward Him ( and I do believe He certainly has the power to do so) we would no longer be human (made in His image) but we would then be puppets…sad robots…

Maybe if he did do those things we might become less …human. Less a reflection of Him and more like a robot simply doing and thinking only what we are programmed to do and think. But maybe if he did do those things…force us, we might all get our wish. God would finally do what we would have done long ago if we had His power.

God’s sovereignty is in His love not in His power.

Posted by: aaronshaver | July 23, 2009

Talk Back!

moviewatchingne0I’m a big fan of soundtracks. If I had an mp3 player (I don’t…stone age, I know) the vast majority of all the tunes would be tracks from movies and TV shows. I love the sense of music underscoring a story and being swept up by that which is epic and dramatic… especially in my car en route to another day at the office. He, he, he.

Wouldn’t it be cool to have your own soundtrack in life. You know, some epic score that materialized out of the air just for you. What if each of us had our own live soundtrack to day by day life!?!  But life isn’t like a movie. Sadly, life doesn’t supply us with a cool soundtrack .

*sigh*

My question for you is this: What else in life is not like the movies? The movies make every moment dramatic or engaging for the viewer. But life -I mean real life…

So how is life NOT like the movies?

TALK  BACK IS MEANT FOR YOU TO LET YOUR THOUGHTS BE KNOWN. EVERYONE HAS SOMETHING TO SAY. SO SHARE IT.

Posted by: aaronshaver | July 17, 2009

Under construction?

Recently, I’ve been overwhelmed with this feeling. Elaina and I both have been sensing a cloud in our lives. Kind of a thick fog of…well, …construction.  Not in the literal sense. And, also not in a bad sense either. Life has been very happy and fulfilling for us in the last few months. However, there has been hanging around our heads this anxious sense of unease. I believe God is preparing us for something. A change. A progression.

Have you ever felt like you came to a point in life where things became pleasantly settled. “Thanks God. I finally got that job. I bought that couch. I have my own house. We found that church.” Not too much later that feeling is removed as the world changes. God moves. Life goes under construction…again.

This is where Elaina and I are right now. And, it really seems to be centered in the realm of our jobs. She’s been working part-time for a number of months now. She loves it, loves the people, loves the work. But it’s not stable income. And, most recently, my day job in downtown Nashville decided to move me to another site in the Middle Tennesse area. The move is not bad…in fact it’s a promotion. But the schedule is going to hurt my availablilty with the church. This is a problem.

So, I leave it up to Him. Here’s how: I noticed in downtown, there is construction going on all the time. Another new building was just completed in June. Think about this with me…no one decides to build an office building and then just arbitraily stack steel, wood, and glass on the site. Nope. You’ve got to dig a big hole in the ground. Clear the area. Block off a few streets to make room for the machines. All of this preparation for the actual construction is necessary…messy and inconvenient…but necessary.

I trust Him. He lead Abram away from his homeland and family but established him as Abraham with a new territory and the promise of descendants. He put Abraham under construction. I’ll trust him with my construction anxieties.

Posted by: aaronshaver | July 14, 2009

Aaron the Enforcer – caught on camera!

A video shot and edited by Cheyenne White. Starring Isaac Meek and Aaron Shaver.

 

If you haven’t seen this yet, it’s about a year old. The ministry team decided to make some videos highlighting each of the leaders in our youth ministry. Mine was meant to display my passion for teaching the Bible to teens. But, things got outta hand…

Posted by: aaronshaver | July 10, 2009

How do you wanna go?

If you’ve been anywhere near the TV or internet in the past few weeks, there’s no doubt you’ve heard of a number of celebrities passing on. Billy Mayes (OxyClean guy) died more or less quietly which is very much the opposite of his public persona. And the death of Steve McNair brought to light what he had done in secret which was also shamefully in conflict to what the public saw of him.

Now, I don’t want to bring anyone down on a Friday…but consider this: how do you want to spend you last seconds in this life? Share your thoughts. Would you rather have a quiet moment with family or spend you last seconds rescuing children from a buring building? It could be funny…like eating so much Death by Chocolate ice cream that it becomes decadently fatal. It’s your last moment. If you could choose it, how would you wanna go?

Posted by: aaronshaver | July 9, 2009

Teens. You can be proud of ‘em.

You can be proud of our teens at SA. Isaac and I get to spend some time with them on a regular basis and form relationships. Over the past 2 and a half years we’ve seen some of them really grow up.
I recently had the oppertunity to not only minister to a few of our teens in a special way but I also saw the teens minister to each other. In the middle of a Wednesday night service, one of our girls mentioned that she would need to make a return visist to the doctor to assess symptoms that might prove to be cancer. She was going to leave it at that when at least two of our teens just halted service by saying, “Let’s pray for you…now.” Immediately the whole room of teenagers, guys and girls, 50 or more of ‘em stood and surrounded this girl with love, prayer, encouragement and comfort. Not a single adult or youth pastor had said anything to initiate this reaction. The teens ministered to one of the own on their own.
I can give so many more stories of how I, as a youth pastor, have been in the position to ask an older teen to make this visiting teen feel welcome and they jump to it with no questions or hesitation. Or, how I’ve noticed two of our young guys that assist Pastor Kevin in the children’s ministry every Sunday morning. These guys are at the church early on Sundays with games ready and lessons prepared in advance for SA’s children.

Posted by: aaronshaver | June 26, 2009

A prince who lives like a pauper (Part 2)

This life is intended to be lived upside down from what we know of it. Or, better said, this life is to be lived right side up from the world’s upside down state of things.
A key to moving on from this statement is to answer “who intended how life should be lived in the first place?”

God.
Simply and completely- the answer is God. And this Yaweh, this God, is the Lord of lords and the King of kings. He is known to own the cattle on a thousand hills. This King has ordered this life and has decreed that sons and daughters of His kingdom should live a certain way…as a tent dwelling people, a people who trust not in chariots but in the name of the Lord, a people who turn the other cheek, a people who offer up our cloak when asked for our tunic.

In God’s kingdom, in God’s economy, in God’s intended way of living none of us can own anything. It all belongs to the King. We may simply be trusted by the King to act as stewards on his behalf. We are to act within His kingdom to expand his kingdom. All the while, we are heirs to the kingdom–we are truly sons and daughters of God. But even the Son of God was given no place to call home, nor was he given an army or chariots. He was a poor pauper.

Christ moved when God said. He spoke when God said. He healed when God said. He left town when God said.

From this example, I can see how my life is to be lived in constant flux with the world but in constant reliance on Him.
For me, to be who God intended me to be. For me, to live like the King intends for me to live. I must understand that I am a prince who lives like a pauper.

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